Hopes, Dreams and silliness

Yesterday we went to see a beachfront condo where we live now. It's a lot of money and all I can think about is how we can buy it.

Then this crazy thought came into my mind.

Too bad my mom doesn't want to sell her house.

1) sell house
2) pay off bills
3) buy car
4) go to Europe
5) help us get condo
6) give girls (my sisters) money (they can payoff whatever they want)
7) she will have complete control of who get what and when.



too bad this never happened

we are now in HELL - called 2020 coronavirus

makes me sad

https://www.yahoo.com/news/trump-dismantling-obamas-legacy-140214491.html

Trump and the dismantling of Obama's legacy

Washington (AFP) - Brick by brick, the demolition job has begun: since taking office less than a year ago, Donald Trump has launched an all-out assault on the legacy of Barack Obama.

Climate, free trade, health care, immigration, foreign policy -- the 45th US president has set about undoing just about everything done by the 44th.

All new presidents, of course, break with their predecessor once in the Oval Office, especially if they come from a rival political party.

But what is striking is how systematic the hammer blows to Obama's legacy have been.

And rather than throw his weight behind new policies or projects, Trump has shown a willful desire to unpick, shred and erase everything his predecessor accomplished.

It's worth noting that each time he buries one of the reforms of the man who sat before him at the "Resolute desk," Trump sounds more like a candidate than a president.

- 'Ridiculous trade deals' -

The Trans-Pacific Partnership? Within days of taking office, Trump signed an order pulling America out of the free trade accord, the fruit of eight years of negotiations between 12 Asia-Pacific countries, from Chile to Canada and Japan.

"We're going to stop the ridiculous trade deals that have taken everybody out of our country and taken companies out of our country, and it's going to be reversed," Trump said.

Paradoxically, in signing off on the project's demise, Trump was aligning himself more with the left wing of the Democratic party than with the Republican mainstream.

The Paris climate accord? Obama played a leading role in attaining that milestone in the effort to combat global warming.

Trump pulled out of the agreement signed by 195 countries, claiming that it "punishes the United States" and declaring: "I was elected to represent the citizens of Pittsburgh, not Paris."

What about Obamacare, the signature legislative achievement of Obama's first term? After trying in vain to get Congress to repeal it, Trump is now working to bring about its collapse through the regulatory process.

And the Iranian nuclear accord? The bid to prevent Tehran from developing a nuclear weapon in return for a lifting of sanctions more than any other bore came to represent Obama's approach to world affairs.

"This deal will have my name on it," the Democratic president said shortly before it was concluded. "Nobody has a bigger personal stake in making sure that it delivers on its promise."

While Trump has stopped short of tearing up the Iran deal, as he threatened on the campaign trail, on Friday he warned he could do so "at any time," raising doubts about the fate of an accord born of years of painstaking diplomacy.

- A break at any price -

How to explain the fixation on destroying Obama's legacy at all cost?

Trump has held high his determination to fulfill his campaign promises, and give form to a simple slogan: "America First."

And his team recalls, with reason, that Obama acted by decree many times when thwarted by Congress. What has been decided by the stroke of a pen can be undone by the stroke of a pen.

Historian Jeffrey Engel, however, sees no equivalent in recent decades to Trump's systematic application of the simple principle that "if the other guy liked it, it must be bad."

To Engel, the explanation is that Trump's electoral base "never accepted fully Barack Obama as their president."

"There was a move among Obama's opponents to delegitimize him and to say that this man is not really president and consequently anything that he did, Trump's base is ready to get rid of," said Engel, who heads Southern Methodist University's center for presidential history in Dallas, Texas.

A notable fact: Obama has until now remained largely silent as his legacy is demolished.

American tradition, which is generally respected, holds that a former president should remain above the fray.

But, in thinking about his place in history, Obama is also playing the patience card.

"I think that Obama understands that his legacy ultimately will be defined by how America reacts to Trump in the long term and how Trump's successors act," said Engel.

On November 7, 2016, on the eve of the US elections, Obama warned voters "it all goes out the window" if they were to send Trump to the White House.

That attempt to rally Democratic voters now seems prophetic.

July 2017

Lots to say, but all I want is to say this:


Queen Surf and the beach...... condo so close, yet so far.


May 2015 - May 2016 pending @ $499

April 17 2017 - re-listed @ $575

April 27 2017 - price lowered @ $525

May 23, 2017 - price lowered @ $510

May 24, 2017 - pending @ $510

June 30, 2017 - sold @ $520

a e-mail from MOM about her Grandkids.

Have been meaning to tell you how wonderful it was when Stephi & Chris came out together when I picked them up for the book store.

They are incredibly good looking, and are so in tune and happy together.  The word that comes to mind is impressive.  They came out smiling  and chatting, completely unaware of the stunning picture they make.  Took my breath away for a second.

Then later at home I thought of how close these two have always been.  How well they have done when they are in tune. I remember when Stephi would go to Miss Jane & help w/the kids when they came out of  their naps and how she was there for Chris.  

Now, that Stephi has matured, Chris is gravitating to her as he always has and it is a beautiful thing to see but should not be surprising.  If anyone will keep Chris to his ambitions, it will be his sister.  

Carl's Jr. and how young do I look?!?!?

funny thing happened today, this lady with her daughter and granddaughter came into Carl's Jr. today.

James was playing with the little granddaughter and the grandma asked James if these were all his kids.. meaning me and the kids.. we died laughing.. then she realized that I was his wife.. and she said to me.. you look so young.. those are your 2 kids?!?!?!?

OMG it was hilarious.. made my day.. :-)

RIP - Brownie (Brown)

I'm sorry Brown... you know that I love you.

~~~RIP~~~~~~

play with Popi

Aug. 1st - Day 1

Time to put me first.

Time for me to start caring about what happens to me.

Time for me to start working out again.

Let's hope that I find the way.

The calm before another storm?

Hate that I feel like something is going to happen.

I hate that... the calm before the storm.

I pray that I am wrong.

In Honor of you ~~~~ DAD

Today was in honor of my dad. Along with my tattoo

that I got, we also went and had a day in honor of him. My dad loved Downtown Disney and the Rainforest cafe. Today, we went and celebrated his life.

1st stop ~~~~ donuts. My dad used to take my kids out for donuts and it was a "secret"... we all knew, but it was their secret!!

2nd stop ~~~~~ a picture in front of the Rainforest Cafe waterfall, then off to the Lego Store and then to build a bear.




3rd stop ~~~~~ lunch at the Rainforest Cafe.




My Dog - is named Smokey Joe... after my dad....

I love you!!! I will miss you forever!!!

R.I.P. ~ Dad, ~ SmokeyJoe ~ Popi

My dad and Mary Poppins' Jan. 2011














RIP ~ I love you. I was lucky to have 2 dads.

FEAR

FEAR....... everyday, I live in it..

how does one live with that?

EVERY SINGLE DAY?????

How can I manage? I'm tired. I'm sad.

Face in Space

Shuttle Mission

If you would like to have your name/image sent on the next (last) shuttle mission you may go to the NASA site Face in Space

https://faceinspace.nasa.gov/index.aspx

to enter your name and you may also download a picture, however, you do not need to send a picture. Upon the return of the shuttle you have the opportunity to receive a Flight Certificate signed by the Mission Commander.

What five tips do you have for other dieters?

• Don't ever give up.
• Remember it's all about portion control.
• It's okay to have cheat days, as long as you can get back on track.
• Believe in yourself.
• Set small goals.

My 10 lbs milestone

Today I hit 10 lbs lost of my first 30 lbs to lose!!!

YAY!!!!!!! slow and steady.....

Weight loss update

Surviving Surgery

It's been about a week since my surgery. Today is the best that I have felt!! It's beautiful here in Southern California and for that I'm grateful. My wonderful husband has been taking care of me and dinners and my kids have been there to help me. I've lost weight, but tomorrow is my weigh in day, so I will post it tomorrow.

Surgery..... again

Well, another surgery for me tomorrow. I had surgery in May of this year and now, I've got to have another one. Different reason.

I'm asking and hoping for any prayers and good thoughts to be sent my way.

Weight update

Slow and steady wins the race right?

My new weight goal - to start

Alot of people told me that my weight goal was too high and that I needed to break it down into more manageable goals. So on that advice, I am going to lose 30 lbs to start with. I will post my weight/goal/loss here.

A Self-Care Buffer Zone

Your Body

• Schedule a check-up.
• Do something active to increase your flexibility, stamina, or strength.
• Take a hot bath or long shower to relax and unwind.
• Give yourself a manicure, pedicure, or facial.
• Treat yourself to a massage or a new hairstyle.
• Wear clothes that are attractive, comfortable, and fit your current size and shape.
• Clear clutter and create a pleasant space that helps you feel happy and calm.
• Plant a garden and grow fresh vegetables, herbs, or flowers.
• Spend time in nature walking, hiking, or sitting.
• Download 101 Things to Do Besides Eat

Your Mind

• Challenge yourself to think positively and powerfully.
• Give your brain a map to follow by setting inspiring goals.
• Learn a new skill or language.
• Do brainteasers and play challenging games.
• Be creative; experiment with art, crafts, and hobbies.
• Listen to music, sing, or play an instrument.
• Take classes online or at your local community center or college.
• Participate in stimulating discussion groups (like this one!).
• Travel—or explore areas close to home like museums.

Your Heart

• Accept yourself as you are right now.
• Embrace the full spectrum of emotions for the depth and richness they bring to your life.
• Spend quality time with your family and friends.
• Schedule a date night to build intimacy with your partner.
• Identify your feelings by writing in a journal or talking with a trusted friend or counselor.
• Set appropriate boundaries for healthier relationships.
• Assert yourself to let others know how you feel, what you think, and what you need. Accept that beyond that, you can’t control what other people think, feel, or do.
• While it’s not possible or even desirable to eliminate stress, learn to manage it.
• Practice forgiveness. Harboring anger and hurt is harmful and eats up precious emotional energy.
• Be vulnerable. This deepens intimacy and frees you from the need to be perfect.
• Seek coaching, counseling, or therapy if needed for emotional support and to build coping skills.

Your Spirit

• Practice mindfulness. Be fully present in whatever you’re doing—eating, talking, working, playing—to experience pleasure and meaning.
• Renew and restore yourself through prayer and meditation.
• Schedule time for your inner work. Know yourself, your values, and your purpose.
• See your problems as opportunities for learning and growth.
• Reclaim peace and joy even as you face challenges.
• Look for the good in others; it’s there somewhere, just waiting to be nurtured.
• Volunteer and give back to your community by helping others.
• Write down all you are grateful for.
• Practice kindness without any expectation of receiving something in return.

Remember, the purpose of eating is to fuel your healthy, balanced, fulfilling life.